Often men say women are unpredictable... So I thought I would ask a guy about his views on this topic...
Let me introduce you to Mayank Aggarwal , he is a blogger ,
an avid thinker.. love to scribble his random innovative and at times weird thoughts! a recent blog bug.. tweet addict!! Love to compose poems.. and presently working on a novel too.. hope for it imminent release.. did also a compose a song in recent.. and mmm.. initiated a step towards social welfare via forming a syndicate f frnz.. named HERMIT which expands as "Human Efforts Reaching to Meet Incredible Triumph"... passionate to learn guitar, and also tap salsa.. and pursuing CA..
So lets see what Mayank has to say about women ...and my counter strike :P
>WHY DO GIRLS TAKE SO LONG IN DRESSING UP!
Mayank's reply-(they pretend that they are dressing up very properly, though
they may end up lukin messy....too much make up! Yuck! The cosmetic that boys find most weird is dark red lipstick.. & again the cosmetic that guys find most fascinating is lipstick but lush light transparentshades..)
My reply -Because they have features which can be further beautified.Unlike boys dull boring ones ! Girls dress up to feel good about themselves !! the beauty of a girl lies within her and the dressing is just to make themselves feel good !! does not matter how long they take to dress up or to say yes !! an intelligent one will be smart enough to use right amount of time to look stunning and yes to confront her love to the right guy .... at the right time ...!!
>HOWEVER SMALL THE PURSE OR HANDBAG OF A GIRL BE, IT WOULD CONTAIN INFINITE MATERIALS, WHICH ONE CAN'T EVEN IMAGINE.. FROM A SAFETY PIN TO AN UMBRELLA.. Hoops! :o
Mayank's reply-(they just go on dumping there bags with whatsoever comes in hand, be it toothpicks, safetypins, visitin cards..Or anything and when asked they would just pretend smart by replying we are prepared for each unforeseen situation)
My reply - u said it well , prepared for unseen situation , by the way most men come running & looking for help when they need somethings too !!
>WHY DO GIRLS, IN MOST OF THE CASE, EXPECT THAT IT IS THE DUTY OF THE BOY (AND NOT THE GIRL) TO INITIATE AND STEP FORWARD TO PROPOSE AT PRIMA FACIA..
Mayank's reply-(grow up girls! But its so because they may skip the chance for displaying attitude.. Bhaav khane ka chance haath se nikal jayega.. :p)
My reply : World has changed , time to re-look stats again , also only when if u have it can't you show it ? What will down market conservative men flaunt?
>similar to above point: IF A GIRL LOVES SOMEONE, SHE EXPECTS THAT THE GUY SHOULD HIMSELF DECIPHER HER FEELINGS FOR HIM.. AND FURTHER SHE WOULD
TERM IT “OBVIOUS” THAT IT WAS OBVIOUS..
Mayank's reply-(grow up! Grow up! Why cant they find it “OBVIOUS” OTHER WAY ROUND TOO.. THEY WOULD PRETEND INNOCENT” YOU NEVER SAID SO…. Etc” )
My reply: Mainly it is tradition, its the way things are done normally. But also the fear of rejection plays a part, guys are more freaked by girls making huge gestures of commitment than a girl will. there is more of a risk for the girl to ask, also we don't do it as it is the man's job and we do not want to make them feel inadequate and to take that away from them.
>WHAT IS IT DAT GALS DO TALK, WHENEVER THEY FORM A BEVY....
Mayank's reply-(even if strangers, girls may start with appreciating accessories, dresses andwould wind up getting personal & no surprise they would even end up gossiping about there boyfriends..!!
My reply:Because only large and clear hearts can connect well . So when one has gulit & bad thoughts in mind you can't do that . So often you find pleasant girls pouring their heart out !
>I NEVER UNDERSTAND WHY DO GIRLS GIGGLE UNNECESSARILY.. AT TIMES, ITS TOO FRUSTRATING........Huh!
Mayank's reply-(they just display as if they had shared a very funny joke, though no one
wudn't have heard anything more lame than that.....)
My reply : Its all about being happy and sharing joy !
>EACH GIRL SEEMS TO BE VERY MUCH CONSCIOUS ABOUT DO THEY FEED THEMSELVES WITH? Esp. ABOUT THE FAT/CALORIES IN THEIR DIET.....
Mayank's reply-(but its mere show off! :p each tim they hangout with friends, they end up
munching junkies.. )
My reply : It takes time , hard work , years of practise & preservance to maintain good looks . Men can't understand that !! Also we believe in eating & staying healthy !!