Showing posts with label men's section. Show all posts
Showing posts with label men's section. Show all posts

Saturday, 14 January 2012

How does a soon to be groom feels before marriage ?

I think all femles give a lot of focus to this topic before marriage , so I decided to write on post on the other side ... So how does a groom feels before getting married ?

My bhaiya is getting married tomorrow , so I thought I would ask him how he feels about it ?




My bhaiya , Dr. Sharad is one of the collest & the sensible guy in the family. This is the much awaited wedding in the family , I still remeber how much I wanted that the kalira should fall on bhiya during my wedding & i did that forcefully too ! hahhahahaaa(the Gabbar laugh)



Bhaiya , Me & Deepika

Bhaiya is having a love cum arrange marriage. He was dating Dr. Deepika from past 3 years & then the finally decided to get married :)
So yesterday was the engagement & sagan function , before bhaiya's sapno ke rani came I did a chit chat with him about marriage and how he feels about it.

Bhaiya told me he knows his lady love from past 3 years and to both of them this is a very special & much awaited moment in life. A successful marriage requires falling in love many times that too with the same person everytime.
Often we think that its the bride who has to make adjustments in the family but the same is applicable on the groom.They have a good compatability and the most important aspect of any relatinship is "communication". They both connect well to each other, also they are from same profession.
Yesterday before the bride arrived bhaiya was excited & nervous. A groom also feels equally as nervous as the bride before marriage ... He tolds me is very excited , as this is new addition to his life but yes he is nervous as he would we meeting new set of family members from bhabi's side... I still remeber I got blank for a while during my rokka ceramony .. so this is very obvious reaction.The good thing in this marriage is that both bride & groom knew other other from before and they undersatnd each other well. 3 years of relationship has tought them a lot about each other's likes & dislikes.
So in short bhaiya is very positve about the marriage and looking forward to " the day" in his life :)

I wish both of them a very happy married life :)




















Monday, 19 December 2011

Why Men Should Cook ?

Cooking is mostly termed a "ladies domain" but the famous chefs are mostly "men".



Some guys I know don't consider cooking at all and on the other side some guys cook occasionally bake & grill. As a guy what all he an cook I am sure Maggi will top the list apart from boiling eggs and preparing tea/coffee.

Whether it's because they think it takes too much time and too much effort or wrongly assume it's a woman's job, men who never learn to cook are losing a huge opportunity to take their man skills to the next level.

The reasons why men should cook ?



1- You can spend more time with your wife- Everyone has a busy life these days , if a couple is working and   live in a nuclear family then please understand your wife is no super woman , she is also like you .. she work for good 8-10 hrs then manages home. You can divide her kitchen responsibility and share a healthy discussion while doing that.When I cook hubby dearest helps with salads and cutting vegetables etc. Trust me your wife is going to totally love this idea of cooking together :)




2- You save money-The inflation rate is going high , come on don't you want to save for future ?? If are a single guy and live alone then don't you get bored of eating the same food everyday ? Don't you remember what mumma told you when you were young that home made food is healthy.... So say yes to healthy food and start cooking !




3- Lifetime skills-You can fix your car , go for road trip .Learn cooking too, its a lifetime skill ! Now you don't have to depend on others or even fast food.


4- Impress & show appreciation- Its a good way to impress and show appreciation to your loved ones.Imagine the smile on your wife/girlfriend face when you will tell her that you cooked a meal for her. Wow she will be totally impressed !!


5-Its fun & stress-buster -Cooking is fun , you can be innovative and make new dishes ! If u had a bad day at work , then cooking acts a stress buster. Imagine the amount of fun that you will have with your wife while cooking together !